Name: Tan Jin Yan
D.O.B: 17/09/1988
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Kinship>Friendship>Love
Saturday, July 21, 2007

While waiting for my Harry Potter book to be release at 7.01am so that I could rush down to the nearest Popular bookstore to collect it. So in the meantime I'm blogging to kill time!


These are the 3 main relationship everyone would have in life, kinship, friendship, and love relationship.


Kinship>Friendship>Love
This the equation that I came out for myself, kinship is greater than friendship while friendship is greater than love.
  • Kinship being the most important relationship in my life, without your parents/relatives I dont think I am who am I today. I believe every parents love their child the most but its their method of expressing it making them different. They wold always stand on your side no matter what happens, even if they know you're at fault they would try everything to salvage it. Be filial to them while you, and not to regret while they're gone.

  • Next would be friendship, as close friends are hard to come by they would be there to enjoy the fun and laughter with you and also they are the ones who stand by you when you're down, by sharing problems with them their only objective would be, to go all out trying to come out with the best solution for you. At times quarreling do occur its just a process where you are going through to know your close friends better, so treasure them.

  • Everyone needs a companion so this is where love steps in. Although its sweet when you're in love but striking a balance in life would be much much harder as you've more responsibilities and more thing to look out for. I would say being devoted in a 1 sided love is foolish while being devoted in a 2sided love is happiness.

These relationships are interchangeably depending on your priorities in life and what you're looking for in life. Afterall these are just my 2cents worth of thoughts.

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